I’ve got this friend.
In real life.
She just broke up with her boyfriend who was supposedly about to propose to her. Simply put, he wasn’t good enough for her, and she knew it. So, BAM. Done.
Story should end there, right?
Wrong.
I mean… what else is there to say other than, “He wasn’t what I wanted”?
Well. She has some other friends that are busting her balls about breaking up with him. Her other friends are like, “Why did you break up with him, he was about to give you a ring.” “You need to get back together with him. What if you never find anyone else that will want to give you a ring?”
Can I get a big, WHAT THE?!?!!!!!
I’m sorry. But did the feminist movement NEVER happen?
Why oh why should my friend, or any other woman for that matter, stay with a guy that is straggling behind her just because he is a willing party in buying her the coveted ring? Why would you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who was not for you? Is it worth all the effort involved in making a marriage work just to have a ring on your left hand?
Being a married woman, I have to say… um…NO.
I can tell you this. I got married four years and three hundred and sixty days ago. To a really great guy. And. I didn’t do it for the ring.

If I had… I would not be married still today. Trust me.
My question at this point is, when did marriage, and the decision to get married, become about a ring? WHEN?
My take:
Chalk this one up to just one of the million reasons that marriage is a very unsuccessful institution in our day.
I say it is a sad day when a woman would settle just so she can get a ring slapped on her left hand.